Women are continuing to smoke whilst pregnant simply because they’re scared of getting ‘judged’ if they request aid based on figures from your Department of Wellness. Do you realize any person that smoked whilst pregnant?
A lot more than 220 pregnant smokers in England had been questioned through the NHS, 25% of them admitted not asking for support, simply because they feared becoming criticised for not kicking the habit by themselves.
Additional than 40% revealed they even lied to doctors or midwives when asked if they smoked.
Cigarette smoking in pregnancy can lessen the amount of oxygen available to the building foetus and babies of smokers are far more most likely to become born with a decrease birth weight.
The official advice from your NHS to pregnant females is to completely stop smoking.
Did you smoke although pregnant? Did you think embarrassed to request help? Do you understand anyone who smoked though pregnant? What do you believe when you see mums-to-be cigarette smoking?
Jemma
I’m 33 weeks pregnant and myself and my husband quit smoking as soon as we discovered out. It was difficult for us, but section of growing to be a parent is realising that staying selfish is something that you have to give up when deciding to have a infant. I’ve identified alot of ladies who have smoked throughout pregnancy, I feel that it really is regarded as acceptable in several social groups. I however, believe that it being a type of kid abuse.
lolage
i imagine its bang out of order the way persons judge people who are pregnant but smoke how the hell are you to say how they run their lives BUTT OUT !?!!!
shabazm
i believe people who smoke when pregnant are discusting, it isnt perfect for the baby, it looses out ion oxygen etc!! i thikn it is incorrect!!!!!?!!!?!!
Lauren&Jessica-Ruth
i imagine its a dirty habit for individuals too smoke while pregant i feel they shuld give up straight away or if they cant queit then cut down at least………. your most lickey to get judged if your smoking while pregant…
LadyG
I too was in the same position as the many females above. I am currently 8 months pregnant and quit using tobacco at 5 months. The only way I was able to do it was through the assistance of my doctor. I requested Wellbutrin and used the gum. Within 3 weeks I had the inner and outer strength to give it up. Wellbutrin is not given within the first trimester and is also considered dangerous. You have to weigh the options. I absolutely hated myself and could not understand how I could be doing this to my infant. On the other hand, it truly is not just a physical addiction. The Wellbutrin took the edge off. I’m not a doctor, but I highly recommend speaking with your physician about methods of quitting. Also, I might add that I have been a smoker for over 17 years. Now, I do not even think about it….
Roxanne
You smug, self-righteous great deal!Who can say they did everything right throughout pregnancy (or any other time)? If you do imagine that, you clearly have no imagination. As a non-smoker (who, I’m sure, has made thousands of other mistakes during pregnancies), I think extreme sympathy for pregnant smokers since of the judgments they have to put up with from other people. Try not to worry and just accept whatever comes up in life.
Dr Kate
This is the least helpful stream of comments I’ve ever read. Since when did getting told off and branded disgusting ever support anyone to succeed in anything.There’s a serious issue here. Pregnant girls who smoke really feel tremendous guilt, hide the simple fact that they smoke then log on to this site in the hope that they’ll get some answers. This is the exact response they’ve been dreading, there is NOTHING on here which allows them to experience that they CAN actually cut down or give up, just totally negative comments. Gorgeous pregnant females out there who smoke, we can do it if we truly want to, there is support readily available, be honest with yourself and your midwife…hopefully we wont be judged and we might even get the advice and help we need to provide up forever. I hope I can, I’m down to 2 puffs of a roll up a day…I thought I was doing well but lets see what the sanctimonious commentators have to say…I dont consider i’m going to become congratulated! Just remember commentators, positive words work better than negative…especially when it’s clear men and women are hiding the truth simply because they sense guilty and judged. *Your* angry words, passionate as they’re, are very unlikely to become the ones which actually make us quit.
LB
I’m almost 9 months pregnant and tried to give up at the beginning of my pregnancy and spoke to my midwife about it but then failed when I was about 3-4 months gone and started again and was so ashamed I didn’t mention it again to my midwife – I know its stupid and have made quite a few attempts because to stop to no avail but today have tried to stop again even though I only have a week left I know anything is better than nothing. I fear people’s reactions if I’m seen cigarette smoking but at the same time I completely understand them. There is no defence whatsoever but I would remind men and women that it really is an addiction not a habit so its not easy to kick and just since you see females using tobacco doesn’t mean they are doing it willy nilly without a care or concern for their infant and obtaining a go at them just perpetuates the problem and increases their guilt which increases their stress which makes them want a cigarette additional – the non smokers out there wont understand that but the smokers will. All in all I hope I can give up and feel actually positive today but I hate the actuality that folks are so quick to judge other men and women these days without thinking about what that other individual is going through or feeling.
shelkar
Do ye seriously believe that ladies enjoy using tobacco though pregnant? NO of course they don’t.!!!!!!! Do we not believe of our unborn babies and hate ourselves knowing what our addiction could do to them? OF COURSE WE DO!!?!!!!!!But It truly is the most addictive substance made by man, and individuals of us unlucky enough to possess been young and stupid enough to get caught in the trap of smoking spend every day of our lives feeling guilty and regretting that choice, I’m a pregnant woman, and a smoker, 11 times so far I have attempted, yet failed to quit the horrible weed although pregnant, what individuals don’t realise is every single time we take a drag the guilt is unbearable YET that IS EXACTLY the reason why we remain trapped, it is a catch 22!!! the a lot more we really feel guilty the additional we will reach for a fag. feel me, it’s not by choice we do this, we don’t need non smokers criticism, we spend every day doing that to ourselves, …It is AN ADDICTION, NOT A CHOICE, and for all the poor women out there, best of luck to ye (us) all….. No wonder females experience they can’t get assist, with the stinking attitudes of those who haven’t got a clue..
Robert Clark
Actuality: Using tobacco is harmful to your infant. On the other hand, who would be to judge? “Before you take the spec out of your brothers eye, first remove the plank from your own…”If someone has a couldn’t-care-less attitude, then it is the babies life that they’re messing with, and this is wrong. But cigarette smoking is so very difficult to provide up for some. (this statement is not directed to anyone’s comments on here – just an opinion)
Cee
It absolutely infuriates me. They may as well be taking a cigarette and blowing the smoke into their new borns faces.
hannah
completely Incorrect..its kinda sad that the baby growing inside that man or woman has no choice whatsoever.and if you truly cared about your unborn kid you would stop.its their life your jeopardizing as-well as your own
Chelle
I love how some pregnant smokers are on here like if anything goes wrong with my infant i’ll deal with it…and they’re talking about their addiction, their problem…what about you child?! They can’t make the choice and you should be concerned about the implications using tobacco has on them. I’m all for freedom of choice but I feel that its distinct when there is another life involved.
kirstie
i do judge…due to the fact becoming a parent is about doing the best by your child, providing them the best you can and giving them a good life towards the best of your ability, pregnant woman who smoke use any excuse going. i used to smoke weed before i got pregnant as soon as i found out i stopped…my pregnancy was extremely stressful but i never turned to anything just inner strengh…but hey some people are weak and some are strong
RC
I believe that unless you smoke yourself you will never truly know how difficult it is to give up. I dont have any children and have never been pregnant but i like to imagine that the day I am I could give up for my childs sake, but its one particular of those people things easier said than done. Any women who has given up cigarette smoking throughout pregnacy must have a great deal of will power, after all even if you definitely wanted to give up when pregnant it is still an addiction that you’ve to shift. And any ladies that still smokes would obviously (hopefully) think guilt and I feel individuals should stop looking down their noses and Assist instead of critizing, that could go for alot of things in this world!
Edith
I women shoulnt smoke although pregnant…some are lucky if the baby doesnt get sick but what if later around the child starts obtaining health problems…Besides isnt cigarette smoking bad for your wellness they said is linked with breast cancer even worst…Stop smoking cigarettes women!!?!!!?!…You can get rid of stress by so many ways and give your child a good start in life since i know you care for that kid
SP
I think using tobacco whilst pregnant is entirely incorrect and disgusting. children should be given the best possible start in life.
katie
how can people sit there and judge about pregnant smokers. being pregnant is a ver big and emotinal time for anyone, so 2 possess a fag isnt that considerably of a big deal wen u put it against all those things.and mayb pregnant ladies dont go 4 help because of ignorante attitudes (like on these comments on this website) they will face.or possibly carry on because they want 2 rebel against al individuals those who tell them they r disgusting nd selfish.
SK
I am 32 weeks pregnant. I used to smoke 30 fags a day prior to finding out I was expecting, I stopped absolutely throughout the first 12 weeks of my pregnancy but over the course of the past 4 months I have gradually started using tobacco again up to (on a bad day) ten cigarettes a day. This is generally because of towards the stress of possessing a boisterous three year old and my own business to run and the stress releif you get from a fag is pretty good!!! I must admit i would fee very embarrased if I was spotted with my bump using tobacco in public and its some thing that I just won’t do so i suppose i’m a hypocrit?I have told my midwife that I am still cigarette smoking and she has said that sometimes the stress of giving up so more harm that the using tobacco itself. My baby is measuring above average in size for that No of weeks pregnant i am so the small infant factor is not true in my case and scans have reveiled no ill effects to the heart ( what could be seen on a scan in any event) i would be devestated if my child was born with any defects simply because of my selfish act, I really do wish I could stop but I’ve tried and it can be virtually impossible. i’ve thrown so many packets of fags away over the course of the last few months.
Crystal
You know what? Leave us alone! I’m 5 months pregnant with a HEALTHY infant boy. I smoke. The doc even says he’s bigger than he should be. So BOO you guys. When people say some thing about me being prego and using tobacco, I easily smile and reply. My son is fine and if anything goes wrong, I can live with that. Mind your biz.
Emily
it really is an addiction not a choice . i had to stop using tobacco weed and drinking going out wearing jeans or anything nice and obtaining any kind of fun its alot u give up when preg and its tough and boring not selfish. some girls drink and do drugs thru pregnancy. .. and they dont care.most smokers do care and think guilty but its difficult and u have to give up everything else to.. dont giv smokers such a challenging time pregnancy is tough.
frankie
smoking is nasty when pregnant how can u do that 2 ur unborn child??? what kind of start in life are u giving ur child?? i smoked n as soon as i found out i was pragnant I QUIT!!!!! DONT BE SELFISH!!!! everytime u take a drag on a fag ur baby stops breathing!!!!
mummy lee
Its not a great start for your baby nonetheless, there are worse things out there than smokers (drinkers, drug takers and poor diets). Its very additive and extremly difficult to give up. Before you cast stones think about what is the hardest factor you can give up and tripple it.
babes.
i feel its completely worng due to the fact its just pure selfishness risking your own childs life just since you want to smoke. Persons need to wise thee bap!
harriet
i imagine that unless you smoke and have been pregnant you cant truly say any point its not that you want to harm your baby or yourself but a habit is a habit becoming pregnant is stressful enough without people judging you i smoked through all my pregnacys but i would never smoke in public i still dont now unless im actually gaggin or without my kids i cant be dealin with the dirty looks i might kick off
Claire
Smoking in pregnancy is selfish! irresponsible its ruining your babys life before its even born !?! i saw a woman using tobacco who i know is still breastfeeding her child! disgusting!!! these individuals should be ashamed !!
Lx
Well……… alot might be debated on this subject. Using tobacco is an addiction and therefore passing judgement on an specific since they’re smoking cigarettes and pregnant in my opinion is ‘narrow minded’ yes everyone has the freedom of personal opinion, that doesn’t give any individual the right to pass judgement, jus like in life you cannot judge a book by its cover!!?! Smoking regardless of whether your pregnant or not is a huge Health Risk, as is alcohol, drugs, fatty foods even SEX…. actually most things that we enjoy might be detrimental to our health!!?!! How each person lives their life is only their cross to bare, we live the consequences of our own actions, therefore its only fair to say its an specific decision to take any risks.
Nicky
I’m a social smoker myself and I know that when I’m pregnant (which I’m again for the second time) smoking and drinking is a no no!!! Why would you want to put your unborn infant as risk to any chemicals that are in cigarette’s for a selfish addiction you’ve?? Its challenging being pregnant having to sacrifice lots of things but that is what getting a mother is all about. When I look at my daughter who is best in everyway I cant understand why any mother would smoke and continue to drink to Jeopardise their childs wellness and mental development?? Its very hard to resist the craving to smoke but find something else to occupy your mind.
Gabrielle
Nah, but sorry, as a lot as it a womans body, it a childs life.And if you can’t be disapilined enuff to give up some thing that could endanger your childs life then maybe u need be rethinking condsider that b4 ur lettin man inpregnate you!
graspee leemoor
Smoking whilst pregnant is nothing compared towards the number of abortions that take place every day.
me
i do not like folks using tobacco.smoking is bad,especially whenever you are pregnant.
chloe linstead
i smoked and drank all the way through my pregnancy, as i didnt find out i was pregnant till about 6 hours before i had him, n i gave birth to a gourgous healthy little boy, who has no problems, and was not for the small side, n while i would not have smoked while pregnant had i known, i doube the reliabilty of the studies ‘proving’ using tobacco harms the unborn kid, as smoking nor drinking did any damage to my son
Vanessa
When i became pregnant i stopped cigarette smoking proper away… Which made me gain 60 pounds through out the entire pregnancy! But at least i had a healthy and lively Child, which didn`t have to go through rehab when it was born. That is the worst a woman can do for her unborn kid…
Aleyah
I consider smoking is not good if you are at an early stage of pregnancy,i smoke and i’m pregnant but i’m not at an early stage i’ve a daughter aged 8 but i must say do not smoke at an early age of pregnancyaged 24
sasha
Im 18 and 8 months pregnant on the day i discovered out i was pregnant i tryed my hardest to cut down smoking it was challenging but i was thinking about my baby girl all i wanted is for her being healthy but at my first scan (12 weeks) i discovered out she has a heart problem all off my family smoke but outside now, i’ve a friend that smoked all the way throught her pergnancy about 20 to 30 a day she knows what i consider off it, i now dont see that very much off her as it annoys me, she has a perfectly healthy baby boy and she done nothing to try and give up, i will never smoke again i feel its disgusting….
kirstyyy
i imagine its up 2 the individual if they choose to smoke… it easier said then done
vix
cant individuals wait 9 months and not smoke its horrible that poor baby is suffering just due to the fact of your horrible habit there is no excuse to do that to somthing so precious if i was pregnant i would stop smoking cigarettes whats 9 months out of your life i would quit forever
Leona
Its discusting and its selfish! What is 9 months out of your whole life…NOTHING!!?!!!?!!
Georgina-Paige
I was at the hospital the other day and there was like 10 woman who had been preganant outside the hospital smoking cigarettes, it was sick. I carnt even stand the smell of it!
ShanShan
How selfish could a single person be to alter someones life before its even started, through an addiction. I find this wrong and actually very disturbing. When i see a pregnant women walking down the street i either turn away or look at them in disgust.
G
I believe if they wana do it then leave them, its there bodies not urz! I smokd the whole way through my pregnancy and gave birth to a beautiful, healthy baby girl. You keep getin told by the midwifes and doctorz dat u need to keep ur stres levels down. The only fing dat helpd me wiv stres at that time was a bath n a cigerete. If your in a stresful relationship, have no family suport, your young and the only way to let the stres owt is by havin a fag, then have 1!
AL
I feel its crazy for pregnant women to smoke, its all about facing the facts it affects the development of the foetus, both in the womb and the baby after birth. yes its addictive so if you cant kick the habbit try gum, lozenges, microtabs, inhalators or nasal sprays. it makes me angry these girls should really feel ashamed
GQ
FO’ real i believe its jus incorrect….i hear ‘em sayin “oh i cant guide it…i’m addict to it ” all girls shoul respect their unborn kid..
trouble
u gotta fink! av u had a infant urself? r u a smoker? i know alot of peeps who always say ” im gonna stop smokin if i get pregnant.” but not many have the will power 2 go ahead wiv it. alot of peeps find it easier 2 hide their problems than share them.
Shola’Pod
It really is Just Stupidness.You’re ruining the condition and well being of urr kid.Kmt. People shouldnt be smokin anyways so boy .
Kai
I imagine “how stupid and selfish can you be?”
K
It should be made illegal
BES
When I discovered out I was pregnant – I could not touch another cigarette due to the fact I, along with my partner created a new INNOCENT, precious life. Children need to be cared for and smoking KILLS. So don’t do it. Your child needs parents to care for them – not parents who need being cared for when a smoking-related illness strikes. When you know better – try to do better!
Emma S
I believe its disgusting and selfish. You have no idea what that smoke is doing to your unborn kid. The fact that the child is growing inside a womans tummy and that baby is feeding on what the woman eats just shows that her cigarette smoking will obviously have an affect. Seeing it makes me sense sick as she obviously doesnt definitely care about that child. I just worry that if at such an early stage she is getting selfish, what sort of life will that child lead? Thats becoming a little extreme i know but it makes one imagine doesnt it? Irrelavent is the reality that its addictive as there is a life inside that woman. For her to blatantly ignore well being risks for the sake of what she wants to do is a big tellign sign. Bottom line, i consider its selfish. Why not quit just for the pregnancy and then start agein if they actually want to smoke that badly??
Rashida
I know this girl who’s almost due to give birth and she just lights them up 1 after the other, not a care in the world.That actually makes me angry..If you can’t be responsible/strong( or whatever) enough to quit, don’t get pregnant!!!
Thomas
It is disgusting behaviour. Using tobacco in itself is a horrid factor, let alone doing it though pregnant. I have no respect for any woman who smokes although pregnant or man who smokes around his pregnant girlfriend/wife.
cjl
Its stupid the baby will die . Its true its very selfish. And cigarette smoking is expensive why bother for taxes!
Kelly
I smoked for the first two months of my first pregnacey, i felt so guilty so i quit n aint had 1 given that. i have two children now and im so glad they’re not brought up around smoke.
Straight towards the point
Damn stchoooopid
Dimples
I knew a girl who smoked when she was pregnant……….her argument was always that her mum did it, and the kids were fine…..I never had a response for that………However, parents should lead by example. And if you truly love your own flesh & blood, you would never ever allow for any harm to come to them by cigarette smoking. At the end of the day, it comes down to choice, hopefully mothers will make the correct one and not smoke during pregnancy.
jp
they just shouldnt smoke its selfish
Aishaaa
Clearly not thinking of the child growing inside them, i think its abit selfish and the dafteness about addiction, if you’ve got the will power to quit then you can do it
F.C.R
I think it’s bad to smoke whilst pregant as im doing kid development at school at the moment, and the risks of smokeing whilst pregant arent good. i think smokeing whilst your pregant shows how much you realy care about your child, as mothers should know the risks.
Ferlaine
I think for that women who can’t get guide because it truly is challenging to request assist when men and women judge you for not getting a good enough excuse! People should stop critisising others and consider about helping them or persons they know to stamp out their habit!
Kris
Reminds be off the dayz when I was a barman at a wedding reception in Maidstone, Kent. Pregnant women drunk up and drugged up as hell.
Sasha
I smoked on the age of 14 until I got pregnant at age 21, it was not a choice to me whether to provide up or not. I did not want my baby being born with a problem simply because I was too selfish to stop using tobacco, knowing that it was harming to me of course it can be going to harm my baby. I was a party-goer to and also gave up alcohol. After I gave birth I never went back to cigarette smoking because I didnt want my life to end early due to throat cancer and my kid not getting a mother. I think any one that smokes during pregancy is being selfish to their child, and I cant stand the site of mothers drinking and cigarette smoking when pregnant, disgusting.
Ria
I know a few mums-to-be who smoke, due to the fact they want smaller babies but do not realise the risks for that baby, i consider that it is a subject that mums-to-be need to be educated additional on.
Deborah
I feel it is appalling. When I see pregmant females smoking I personally feel like walking up to them to explain how disgraceful it can be. If you do not have respect for your body, have respect for the little child you are bringing into the world. Same goes for females with babies in buggies smoking. These kids are a lot more probably to start cigarette smoking at a young age. If you want a healthy kid, why should you be ashamed to ask for support?I bet if people mothers got a modelling contract tomorrow and they were asked to loss weight, they will find the will-power to do it so I imagine girls should put in mpre effort to save their babies.
Nicky
It’s absolutely totally irresponsible. is this not a type of kid abuse??? i consider it’s!!
Fiona
WHY?? why would someone want to smoke though pregnant?? So selfish, its only 9 months out of your life you’ve to provide up for that sake of your unborn baby! I dont understand smokers anyway so a pregnant woman confuses me even additional.
cola
I hate it its a dirty point anyway but when u are obtaining a baby that is just so wrong i think if u cant do 1 issue like stop when u are pregnant then dont have a baby get guide first !! and also when they smoke in the home with the kids around , i gave up b4 i had mine and have not had i since that was 13 years ago and dont miss it 4 kids later ! i say get a grip sort you self out b4 u want 2 possess a baby !?!!!?!
PN
How is it embarrassing??? I think what a selfish cow
Nesto
truly and trully i can’t stand to see pregnant girls smoking. the fact that they don’t care for themselves is staying shown but not to care for their future kid just shows how ignorant persons can b towards well being and little they care for the kids life.
Kay
I feel cigarette smoking is a disgusting habit, but to smoke whilst you are pregnant is incorrect! Its just selfish and just thinking about yourself. If you want to bring a child into this world then feel about how cigarette smoking while they’re inside you will affect them and there health.
angel
it’s Wrong!
K.S.P
Its disgusting and entirely irresponsible behaviour, its ruining your babys life before its been born, we possess a little one particular in our family, her mum smoked and drank through out pregnancy, this child is the size of a 1 year old, shes three.Makes me so angry! Embarrassed?! What!! Disgusting!
Leila
I feel its disgusting for females to smoke while pregnant….and I consider fear of becoming judged is not a good enough excuse for not seeking support to quit. You’re additional probably to get judged if you’re pregnant and still using tobacco…